很深刻的人生道理，簡單幹淨，讓人明白很多

很深刻的人生道理，簡單幹淨，讓人明白很多

他們也害怕我們

They‘re afraid of us， too

多年後的回味，有些人，我們已經無法真正記住自己的模樣

After years of aftertaste， some people， we can’t really remember our appearance

一個無論地位多麼高，物質基礎多麼慷慨，總是否定你的人，是一個內心缺乏自我意識的人

A person who always denies you no matter how high his status and how generous his material foundation are is a person who lacks self-consciousness in his heart

所以，也給了對方傷害自己的權利

Therefore， it also gives the other party the right to hurt themselves

事實上，這只不過是“愛”這個詞之間的區別

In fact， this is just the difference between the word “love”

男人做這兩個字，就是愛你的表現

Men do these two words， is to love you

有句話說女人不愛，誰對她好她就跟誰走

There is a saying that women don‘t love。 She will go with whoever is good to her

在那之前，你已經透過發展精神上和經濟上獨立的技能贏得了第一步

Before that， you have won the first step by developing mentally and financially independent skills

這樣的男人，就算和你結了婚，也會一直藏著心

Such a man， even if he marries you， will always hide his heart

男人和女人之間的良好關係，是因為他們想要彼此放心，並習慣性地給對方一種真正的肯定

The good relationship between men and women is because they want to rest assured of each other and habitually give each other a real affirmation

錯的時間遇見對的人，沒有結果；在正確的時間遇到了錯誤的人，就這樣

Meeting the right person at the wrong time has no result； Meet the wrong person at the right time， that’s it

除非，不愛

Unless， don‘t love

很明顯，一個能容忍和原諒自己的愛情習慣和依賴的女人，或者一個不能面對一個讓他成為“失敗者”的女人的男人，更能原諒背叛

Obviously， a woman who can tolerate and forgive her love habits and dependence， or a man who can’t face a woman who makes him a “loser”， can forgive betrayal more